At a recent event on a leadership programme we’re facilitating, I had a flash of insight – in the form of a metaphor. In my enthusiasm, I jumped right in and shared the story – to many blank faces all round. When I asked my friend and co-facilitator, Alan about it afterwards he said he couldn’t follow what I was trying to say.

Lesson No 1 – just because you’ve joined the dots in your own mind, and what you are thinking makes perfect sense, don’t assume it will makes sense to others!

OK, my metaphor was around dependency and the Wizard of Oz (by the way, the movie was released in 1939, over 70 years ago), in particular referring to the idealisation of the Wizard as the one who had the answer.

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